Hands up for those who are single and searching/waiting for the "perfect" guy/girl to appear / or maybe those who are already in a relationship, trying to change their partner into their so-called "perfect" person for them.
With all the hands up, I am going to one by one twist every single one of them, and force you guys/girls out into reality.
"PERFECT DOESN"T EXIST!!!!"
(unless you go it with the saying of "love is blind"... =) )
Ya know i always believe in my philosophy,
"Be together with someone you can live with, not someone you can't live without."
Next question i can predict from my readers, why???
Think about it this way, if you are together with someone you can't live without, which i feel is utter rubbish because EVERYONE CAN LIVE WITHOUT SOMEONE!!! But okok, let's assume that you really can't live without, won't you be like so dependent on the person, like you can breathe without the person, you will grow to be like the person, and soon, you will be wanting to hear his/her voice every single sec of the day. one word to bind everything up, "TIRING!!!"
Everyone deserve their own time and space, a partner is a enhancement. Meant to enhance your life, make it better, make it more colourful, but not to step into you and breathe the same air and share the same space.. That personal space I am refering to of course.
Why choose someone you can live with? Answer is very very simple, look at the high divorce rate in everywhere not only Singapore now, the couple simply can't live with each other. This is why, i highly encourage co-habitating before you decide to announce to everybody that the two of you are going to spend the rest of your life together sharing the same name; Marriage. =)
Give up the fairytale thinking, because fairytale will always remain as something in the far far away land, and not here, not in reality.
I guess that what I've mentioned above is pretty negative, so here is something positive:
There is always someone out there for you, don't have to search for it, because when the time is right, the person will appear. =)
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