We LOVE the BAD!

I know this one man, who has never asked for anything in return for everything he has done for his friends, and that includes me.

I can foresee the first reaction from majority of you:

"this kind of man extinct already la..."

Be surprised, very surprise that in this harsh world we are living in, there are still nice people around, from both gender. People who are kind-hearted, and really really concern about people whom they regards as "friends".

This guy neither have looks nor money, but his heart is made of gold. He was there 24/7.. i mean literally 24/7, he was really there. However, I was never his girlfriend, and that doesn't even matter to him, because he will still be so concerned about me, and tries his very best to be there for me. *Touched*

Remember the saying, "good guys always finish last". I feel that this saying is really really very true, because till today, after knowing this guy for 5 years, he is still single. (He needs a real good girl to take care of him, any takers? =p j/k!)

WHY???!!!???

"Nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai!"

This saying might be true for some people, might be rubbish to some people too. Why do i stand on the fact that we (majority) love the bad? Just thinking about this fact: We cried and struggle, feel pain whenever we are in a relationship that causes us so much agony, when our partner is treating us so badly, and we still hold on, as though he/she is the last man/lady left on this big round Earth. BUT when we are in a lovely relationship, we tend to take our partner for granted (please don't deny this fact.. I am sure you people out there should be guilty of this act at least once!!!).

Of course I am not killing every single one of you out there with this sweeping statement, I know that we do appreciate the efforts that our partners have put in for us too. =)

At this point of us, I urge my readers who are attached to close your eyes, and think about the relationship you are having now, do not hold on just for the sake of holding on. If your partner is not treating you the way you should be treated, he/she is not worth it. Repeat this in your head for a few times, not worth it, not worth it and still not worth it. =)

BUT if you feel that your partner deserve someone better than you (which shouldn't be that way at all, wrong mentality!), go do something about it, and don't ever let me find out that you've dropped your partner for some lame excuses such as he/she deserve someone better, DO something about it then. Be that someone deserving of his/her love. =)

I wish all couples here, good love. =)

Don't love the bad, love the good, for only then, you will be good. =)