Remember the times when you just fallen from a relationship that almost seems so perfect and it is so painful to let go? Now in this entry, I am going to share with you all, how to cope with the pain of letting go, letting go of the love that once occupied your heart, your world and made you the happiest person alive for that moment. =)
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GULB 1st step:
Listen to all the sad songs, all the happy songs that make you think of him/her, cry your heart out. Let all the past memories flash through your mind, remember all the good and the bad, but concentrate on the good of course, because, noone in this world deserve to be hated, nor disliked, especially if the person once truly love / loved you before.
GULB 2nd step:
Go through everything that he/she has ever gve you. The couple ring, the pictures you two took together, flowers (that are already all dried up), all the movie tickets, restaurant bills, and etc. (I seriously don't think that all these things can be digged out of every corner of your room though. =) After putting everything together, keep them in a box that is big enough to store everything. Chuck it in one corner of your house, or if you can, "burn them". Usually i will just keep them in a box and store it somewhere, because all those were good memories.
GULB 3rd step:
After crying almost your entire heart out, this step is crucial, call your best friends out. Friends that understand what you are going through, friends that know not to mention anything unhappy to you when you are out with them. Go out and have fun, eat and shop with your friends, go cycling, swimming, anything to get your mind off all the unhappy things.
GULB 4th step:
Just get back to your normal life, don't "hen ta ka ki" (marching on the spot if you don't understand this command), because the world will not stop revolving around the solar system just for you, the sky will still change from blue to black, black to blue and there will still be waves in the sea. =) (my fav. phrase)
Remember, never get into a rebound relationship, cause that will only screw up your life so badly you can't get out of the black hole you are digging for yourself. =)
If anyone of you readers out there got a personal problem you wish to share, just drop me a mail @ geturlifeback@gmail.com. Guarantee reply in 24hrs @ no charge. =)
Peace out. V.V
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2 comments:
sensible steps. BULB 1st Step hardest, can skip the first step?
Well, it is the hardest and the most painful step, but once you manage to do it, and conquer it, everything else will be alot easier. =)
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